For all of you out there looking to break the stereotype and sweep HIM off his feet for once, this is how you sweet-talk a guy—the adorable way.
For some reason—I blame a male-dominant society—men have always been the ones that need to do all the work when beginning a relationship. They always have to come up with the best lines in order to capture a fair lady’s heart.
While many men are known for sweet-talking ladies in order to gain their affection, I think it’s time for women to get to do some work of their own! What happens when the guy you like doesn’t seem to put any effort into pursuing you?
That’s right! It’s up to you to sweet-talk that guy and steal his heart—not the other way around. It’s time for you to take charge for a change, and learn how to win over a man’s heart. Despite popular opinion, it is possible and not actually that hard at all!
Adorable ways to sweet-talk a guy!
The key to sweet-talking a guy is to be subtle. While many guys looking to win over a gal tend to be obvious when it comes to their plan, they expect women to be much more subtle about it. Subtlety will go a long way in getting his attention and making him fall for you–without him even knowing it!
Here, we have put together all of the best strategies and things to say in order to effectively sweet-talk a guy and steal his heart. Keep in mind that each of these should be tailored to your guy, specifically, since everybody is different. But overall, these ways will get your guy falling for you in no time! [Read: 14 ways to show a guy you like him while being a real tease at the same time]
The best strategies to use while sweet-talking a guy
You can’t simply walk up to a man and regurgitate all of the amazing phrases listed below. It’s not actually that simple. But if you’re looking for different strategies to use in order to gain his attention, these are the best ones.
#1 Appeal to his masculine side. If there’s one thing a man really wants, it’s to feel manly. If you talk about his masculinity in any way—ask him to open the pickle jar, tell him he’s strong, etc.—it will work wonders! He’ll find himself trying to impress you more and more with his masculinity.
#2 Compliment his looks. Find subtle ways to point out that he’s looking good! Simply telling him that a certain color suits him well is a sure way to get him interested in you. You’ll notice that he’ll start wearing that color more and more! [Read: 25 compliments for guys they’ll never ever forget]
#3 Be a damsel. Again with the masculinity, but that’s just what men love. Be a damsel in distress, and need saving from time to time. Coyly asking him to come help you do something that you might be able to do already is an easy way for him to feel like he needs to be there for you. He’ll be the first one there next time you need help! [Read: Damsels in distress and why men find them totally irresistible]
#4 Be forthcoming with your feelings. Men don’t have the best intuition, and are often oblivious to the feelings of women, so sometimes you have to be blunt about your feelings. Laughing at one of their jokes and saying, “You’re funny. I like you.” is a quick way to sweet-talk them, and will have them fawning over you in no time.
#5 Be subtle. Being forthcoming is one thing, but you also have to be subtle. I know this sounds contradictory, but hear me out. If you’re too easy with your affection, men won’t pay much attention. They love the chase. In order to effectively sweet-talk, you’ll need to send them hints here and there, without divulging that you want them to fall for you! [Read: Why men like a chase and how to use it in your favor]
#6 Talk about his work ethic. Men are proud beings. They love being told that they work hard at what they do. One way to steal his heart is to be fascinated by his work and ask him about it frequently. Ask him about any projects he has going on, or anything else that’s relevant to his work life.
#7 Make. Eye. Contact. If there’s one thing that will get you a guy’s attention, it’s making eye contact with him. When you’re talking to him and shooting him some of the adorable lines listed below, make sure you keep steady eye contact, and he’ll be drooling over you in no time!
#8 Make appropriate physical contact. I don’t mean grabbing and hugging him all the time. No. That will just get annoying. I mean lightly touching his arm when you’re talking, or brushing past him and looking back as you walk by. These are subtle signs that you want to be close to him and he’ll be itching for more! [Read: 25 things girls do that make them irresistibly attractive to guys]
#9 BE CONFIDENT. Men fawn over confident women. They LOVE them. Make sure that you ooze confidence with each line you feed him and you’ll be sweet-talking him right into your arms.
#10 Smile! Guys are mesmerized by a woman’s smile. For one, it makes her look approachable and fun, and for another, she just screams confidence when she walks around with a broad smile on her face. Smiling at a guy will have him acting like putty in your hands.
#11 Catch his eye from time to time. When you’re in a group setting, let him catch you staring and send him a small smile before turning away. Giving him sexy little glances throughout the night is basically grabbing his heart and running away with it. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves that always work]
What to say in order to make him fall for you
Here are some simple phrases to get you thinking about just how you can sweet-talk him and steal his heart. Take it from a gal who’s tried these: they work!
#1 “You know, you’re one of the most interesting people I’ve talked to in a while.”
#2 “Your determination *insert applicable attractive quality* is really attractive.”
#3 “I had so much fun with you! Can’t wait to do it again.”
#4 “I’ve never met someone quite like you.” [Read: 25 sweet ways to look cute and melt a guy’s heart]
#5 “You really are something else. ;)”
#6 “I couldn’t believe when you did ____! It was really cool.”
#7 “Well, don’t you look great today!”
#8 “I think you’re better than ___ at ___.”
#9 “When do I get to see you again?”
Sweet-talking a guy in order to steal his heart doesn’t have to be a difficult task. It can be fun, sexy, and even a challenge. Following these adorable ways to sweet-talk your man will be sure to have him running after you!
Original article by LovePanky.com: 20 Adorable Ways to Sweet-Talk a Guy and Steal His Heart.
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